I have read and been repeatedly inspired by Marcus Buckingham’s books.  I embrace the theory that you maximize an individual’s talents and mitigate their weaknesses.  He recently released a new book titled Find Your Strongest Life that I anticipate reading as soon as I finish Seth Godin’s Linchpin.

I am always searching for the best question to ask at the right moment.  Marcus has a five-point strategy for problem solving.  Number three is listed below: 

Change follows the line of your questioning. Instead of asking, “What’s wrong?” ask, “What does it look like when it’s working?”

Checkout the rest of the steps on Oprah’s website along with tactics for decision-making, switching careers and developing connections.