Would you rather someone was for us are with us?  Often we want what is convenient and that is a person to like us, contribute to us, or advocate for us.  We want individuals to take just enough action that we can say that they are for us.  However, to be with us takes another level of commitment.  Our enterprise might have a thousand fans but only a few work for the cause, serve on the board, and volunteer.  No everyone can be with us all the time but who shows-up consistently?  Those who are with us think about the needs of the tribe more profoundly.  They are anticipating the obstacles and preparing to celebrate our victories.

It is nice to have those who are for us.  We only remarkable because of those who are with us.